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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 01:06

How does one succeed in life?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Does not procrastinate.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Procrastinates a lot.

How do I run away? I'm 15 and live in Oklahoma.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

I found out I have cancer—I have not told my family. We can’t afford the treatment anyway. Should I just say nothing and let nature take its course?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Ask yourself:

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Have you ever dealt with a Christian narcissist?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

That's it for today.

My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why do flat-earth conspiracy theorists believe that photos from space, including those of satellites, are fake?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why is my elder sister so mean?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What I need from you?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.